same as it ever was

moldge:

(2/2) for mouseking; i really wish i could help you out with your money issues, i know how difficult they can be. :/

♥♥ Just the thought really counts, thank you so much for these lovely drawings. And thank you for the reblog too, I really appreciate the help (: It’s awesome to see your art again, I’ve really missed it ♥

moldge:

(1/2) for mouseking of her character franz

Aahhhhhh this is gorgeous ♥ I love what you do with Franz, you’re always so innovative with him. What brought this random gift spree on? I wanna draw for you now <3

Creeper cake :D Made for my best friend’s 21st birthday. We lit it with an indoor firecracker/decoration so it could really go off with a sssssSSSssssss and a BANG

Garrus in a suit, yes please

In my most reductive moments this is exactly how I feel. Using the term ‘men’ in a way that is separated from gender (and could be applied to either), to refer instead to the positive connotations the male ‘stereotype’ (perhaps I’m thinking chivalry) carries, i.e. strength, bravery, loyalty, and moral integrity, meeting a real ‘man’ is very rare. Very few of the people I know, both men and women, qualify - of those who don’t, many fit into the stark opposite, being dishonest and untrustworthy, and most certainly lacking moral integrity. It actually reminds me of a quote from the simpsons (there is one for every situation, ha): Agnes Skinner says, “In my day we had people who stood up to ruffians. We called them men”. Remove the gender binary from this and you have what I want - I want people to stand up for themselves and for what is right. But they don’t, and they never will. Realising this has been very disappointing. Growing up, I was led to believe that this is what people should do. Apparently only I, and, unsurprisingly, my boyfriend, bought that. 

On a completely different note my love for this comic has recently been reignited thanks to a debate I had with one of my housemates. Miller’s catwoman is the only version I don’t hate with a passion. Year One proves that he’s capable of subtlety and realism without excessive grit, violence and fascism. Who knew.

feministblackboard:

A few weeks ago my mom stapled pages of a story in one of her women’s magazines together and handed it to me. She gave it to me pretty much with the tag lines “for your feminist blog” and “something new to consider.” Indeed it was; she knows me well.

The story is titled “I was forced to be pregnant.” With a title like that, reading it was actually not on the top of my to read list. I thought it was about women not exercising their right to choice. I was very, very wrong on that one.

Have you ever heard of Reproductive coercion? It is a term that was quite recently coined by the advocates against domestic violence to describe a certain type of abuse some women face. It occurs when a man pressures their partner to have kids and/or impregnates them against their will. Reproductive coercion comes in three different types:
1. Emotional pressure that turns into verbal and physical abuse.
2. Sabotaging birth control
3. Marital rape
Over 75% of women 19-49 who reported once experiencing domestic violence also endured some type of reproductive control by men. It’s all about control and domination over a woman’s body.

The first story in the magazine is about a woman who got married around 36 years of age. After a few months of dating her boyfriend talked excitedly about having children. After he proposed he began calling her “The Babymaker.” She then confided with him that one of her fallopian tubes was blocked. He in return insisted she see a fertility doctor. She recounts, “I had finally met a great guy who was eager to start a family with me. What woman wouldn’t fall for that?” Soon after her honeymoon he persisted on in an obsessive manner, but his efforts had to be temporarily halted as she had to get emergency back surgery. Alas, 6 months into recovery he was back to pressuring her again. She was in much pain at the time due to her back, but she agreed to In Vitro Fertilization. She then became pregnant, but soon miscarried. In response, her husband grabbed her by the neck, choking her. He apologized, blaming his outburst on his grief and had her sign up for another round of IVF. And then a third round. She tried to put him off with the excuse that she needed to weigh more before she could take treatments, her husband forced her to get on the scale often and filled the fridge with fattening foods. “It hurt that all I was good for was getting pregnant.” She recounts. At the end, he screamed at her, threatening to replace her with a maid if she couldn’t get pregnant and she told him she no longer wanted to have his child. He destroyed bedroom furniture, pushed her down the stairs and threatened her with a gun. She fled to a domestic violence shelter.

The second story was about a woman who faced marital rape. This woman was 40, had a then boyfriend and two children from a previous marriage. After telling her boyfriend she did not want any more children, her boyfriend refused to wear a condom and began to rape her.  She then became pregnant with her third child. Birth control was never an option for her because she couldn’t hide pills anywhere for he went through all of her belongings. Three months after giving birth, he raped her again, impregnating her with twins. She lost the twins in a physical fight with him, but soon became pregnant again. During her recovery she begged her obstetrician to remove her ovaries and devise a lie to tell him; that she had cancer. After a decade of sexual abuse and violence she was able to get a job that kept her out of the house and often times traveling.

One in four callers to the National Domestic Abuse hotline said that their partners had tried to force them to become pregnant. Why? As one woman stated, “Its like he wants to own me from the inside out.”  Having a baby is the perfect tie that binds. These type of abusers want to create a circumstance in which their partner is dependent on him.

WHAT’S THAT HAVE TO DO WITH PLANNED PARENTHOOD?

Many voters never consider how defunding these clinics could hurt victims of domestic violence who turn to them for counseling as well as pregnancy prevention. Abused women will turn to health care providers long before they will turn to domestic abuse hotlines and organizations. Many women in abusive relationships rely on life saving, affordable care programs such as Title X. It is critical that such places are open and operation when women and children need them so desperately.